<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188</id><updated>2012-02-16T15:05:40.425-08:00</updated><category term='therapy'/><category term='Experiential Therapy'/><category term='Family workshops'/><category term='Brad Carpenter'/><category term='Asubstance abuse'/><category term='therapist'/><category term='young adult program'/><category term='Southern Utah'/><category term='Aspiro'/><category term='wilderness therapy'/><category term='young adults'/><category term='family conflict'/><category term='students'/><category term='family relationships'/><category term='academic underachievement'/><category term='Bouldering'/><category term='Outdoor adventure program'/><category term='summer programs'/><category term='depression'/><category term='Justin Robinson'/><category term='Vantage Point'/><category term='Rappelling'/><category term='educational consultants'/><category term='Central Utah'/><category term='Ropes Course'/><category term='parents'/><category term='Utah'/><category term='rock climbing'/><category term='Lake Powell'/><category term='sports'/><category term='whitewater river trips'/><category term='struggling teens'/><category term='substance abuse'/><category term='snowboarding'/><category term='Kairos'/><category term='teens'/><category term='low self esteem'/><category term='Adventure wilderenss program'/><category term='skiing'/><category term='drugs'/><title type='text'>Kairos Young Adult Adventure Wilderness Program</title><subtitle type='html'>Kairos students participate in an expedition-style adventure where nature has a way of healing.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-6338606016522867092</id><published>2009-03-22T15:49:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-22T15:54:27.308-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Outdoor adventure program'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aspiro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='depression'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='drugs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='low self esteem'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='academic underachievement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Asubstance abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adult program'/><title type='text'>Kairos Young Adult Outdoor Adventure Program</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/home"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 87px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/ScbBhJWdCtI/AAAAAAAAAYA/CKFkYqV63L8/s320/Kairos+picture+1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316149185347390162" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="node"&gt;                                        &lt;div class="content"&gt;      &lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are you struggling with issues of depression, alcohol and drug abuse, or low self-esteem?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/contact"&gt;Kairos &lt;/a&gt;can help.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Kairos's solution-oriented, outdoor adventure therapy program works. We blend the best of the outdoors with effective and proven therapeutic processes.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;You will experience the highest standards of safety and therapy in one of the most beautiful and powerful settings for real change.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/program"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; engages participants in character development as well as working to resolve family and personal issues and preparing each you for the next best step&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Do you need &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/clinical"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;? Read our participant profile and then give us a call at 888-266-5136.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/students"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; serves young adults from 18 to 30 years old.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Please call to see if &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/base_camp"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; is an appropriate program for you.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: rgb(255, 153, 0);"&gt; Kairos 1-888- 266-5136 or (801) 349-2740&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/div&gt;                                                              &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-6338606016522867092?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/home' title='Kairos Young Adult Outdoor Adventure Program'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/6338606016522867092/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=6338606016522867092' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/6338606016522867092'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/6338606016522867092'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2009/03/kairos-young-adult-outdoor-adventure.html' title='Kairos Young Adult Outdoor Adventure Program'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/ScbBhJWdCtI/AAAAAAAAAYA/CKFkYqV63L8/s72-c/Kairos+picture+1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-4275806819774739711</id><published>2009-02-04T14:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-04T15:06:08.844-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Justin Robinson'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Family workshops'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='educational consultants'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='drugs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='low self esteem'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Lake Powell'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Experiential Therapy'/><title type='text'>Self-Efficacy And Thinking Errors</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SYoeK37TwDI/AAAAAAAAAW4/TL7N8YSn_nY/s320/Dan+LeMaire.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5299081083715043378" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Dan LeMaire, Assistant Field Director&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;“…Men of the modern world exist in continual and flagrant antagonism between their consciences and their way of life”. I have recently been swept into a great internal adventure as I study the lives of non-violent social reformers. It came as a surprise to me that reformers of the 20th century such as Ghandi and Martin Luther King Jr., as well as many others, have a common history in their studies of Leo Tolstoy. Tolstoy is a novelist, philosopher and educational reformer who lived and worked in the late 1800s and it was he who penned the quote above. It was Tolstoy’s postulation that we live in a constant tension between what we know we should be, what we think we can be, and what we think we are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many of the friends I meet at &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=clinical"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;, in the form of peer guides and in the form of students arrive in this state.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In so many ways, I feel closer to them for it… because it is a way of being that I share. I do not think that living in this state indicates any sort of moral failure, at least not more than anyone else. The only way to truly be exactly what we think we should be at all times is if we are perfect. However, I have seen unhealthy and healthy ways of resolving this tension. It would stand to reason that if we feel a sense that we ought to be something better than what we are, that we ought to be more fit, more kind, more generous, more hard-working, etc., that this tension would make us uncomfortable. This discomfort can motivate us to excel and to become better, but it does not always. There are easier ways to resolve this tension. If we seek to close the gap between ‘how good’ we think we are, and ‘how good’ we think we ought to be, it is very difficult to simply be better. It is much easier to convince ourselves that the concept of ‘how good’ we ought to be is simply an illusion. If our moral sense is an illusion, then it absolves us of our responsibility to work toward it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If we cannot bring our behavior up to the standard of our morals, then we will bring our morals down to the standard of our behavior. It can sometimes take years of dialogue with ourselves and crafty manipulation to convince ourselves that we need not be as great as we think we ought to be. This is where our third category comes from. It is the category of self-efficacy, or 'what we think we can be'. Before attempting any task of any kind, our minds will always go through a process of deciding if the task is worth the effort. If there is a high likelihood of success, and relatively small cost, we are likely to attempt the task. If there is either too high of a cost, or simply no belief that we can accomplish the task, we are unlikely to attempt the task.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Being an accomplished skier, I enjoy skiing very difficult and steep backcountry slopes. I must minimize the risks of avalanche, tumbles, and equipment failure in order to do this successfully. I will carefully measure snow stability across the span of months, carefully tune and prepare my equipment, choose my team or partner carefully, and spend hours picking my specific path down the mountain and committing it to memory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because I have done all these things so many times, and have been successful each time, I have little hesitation when I am standing on top of the slope, looking down, preparing to drop in. My wife, on the other hand, has skied only a few hours in her life. Simply standing on her skis on the gentlest of slopes without me nearby to help can immobilize her in terror. If she were to stand at the top of the same mountain that I was standing on, she would simply be unable to progress any further. She would be unwilling to accept the risk of failure. My self-efficacy is much stronger than her self-efficacy as it regards backcountry skiing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whether the task is skiing, homework, business, making friends, quitting smoking, or interacting positively with parents, we will only choose to accept the challenge and engage in the task if we believe we can be successful. If the cost is too high for us, we will simply choose to believe that we cannot possibly accomplish the task. There is a constant tension between what we think we ought to be, what we think we can be, and what we think we are. An unhealthy way of resolving this tension is to simply lower the standards or 'what we think we ought to be', or to lower the standards of 'what we think we can be', to match 'what we think we are'.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have heard students at Kairos tell me that they simply cannot get along with their parents, that they would rather live on the streets. Because they do not believe in the possibility of success, they choose to believe that the only option they have left is to live on the streets, to give up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are more academic ways of describing these conditions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'What we think we ought to be' is called morality, spirituality, or ambition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'What we think we can be' is called our self-efficacy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'What we think we are' is known as our self-concept. Thinking errors in each of these areas are addressed at Aspiro, and I believe this is one of our many keys to success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a student lacks ambition, or ignores moral impulses they have, there can be a lot of shame and sadness associated with it. One can begin to look pretty cold, hard, and cruel pretty quickly in this state. Bridges are often burned in the family and and it is hard even to have the motivation to like each other or continue trying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, the environment can become so surreal, so magical, so difficult sometimes at Aspiro, that all the rules change. Things that seemed distasteful before now seem desirable. Relationships that seemed lost begin to feel missed. We journal, we talk, we have community, and we share great epic adventures together until suddenly we find ourselves wanting to be better than we ever have before. Where before we felt no desire to overcome, to be better, to do whatever it takes to love, accomplish, and to grow, suddenly we begin to Aspire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is what it means to experience &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a student lacks confidence, there is a deep sadness and feelings of failure associated with it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes it feels like one can never be good enough. Often because of learning disabilities, difficult family situations, loss, or negative peer groups, a student comes to us feeling as if they have never succeeded at anything. Sometimes they feel as if they never can succeed, that they are born destined to be unhappy and destined to feel distant and left out of their families and communities. It is difficult to feel this way for long at Aspiro. The community is supportive and goes to great lengths to notice and reward every success. We are confronted with challenges such as rock climbing, river rafting, skiing, and rappelling that change us in deep and powerful ways. Once we have completed that one difficult climb, that one scary rappel, that one roaring rapid, it is hard to ignore the feeling of power and success that comes as a result of that. It is hard to continue believing that we are destined to be unhappy or destined to be unsuccessful. Where before we had no confidence, no belief that we could accomplish great things, suddenly we begin to aspire. This is what it means to experience&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt; Kairos&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;When a student sees themselves different than they truly are, when they make choices that reflect a lack of understanding of the world around them, or lack of empathy, there can be enormous frustration associated with it. It can feel like they are trying very hard but going nowhere. Many of the tactics they try do not turn out as they expect. Sometimes a student will perceive themselves as less valuable, less loved, less important than they truly are. Other times they will see themselves as the center of attention, as the only one of value in the room, the only one worthy of notice. At Kairos we have a culture of unconditional love that trickles from staff to students and their peers. But this unconditional love does not mean unconditional attention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our students learn to understand that we love them deeply regardless of their past and are only interested in their success and growth. However, they are not the center of the universe and others have needs as relevant, real, and pressing as their own. When we can feel unconditionally loved, but redirected to focus on serving others around us, it is my belief that we are freed then to act in love and to see ourselves as we really are. Where before we had a misdirected sense of how to get the attention we need, or an underestimated sense of value about ourselves, we begin to grow a new respect for our power, our influence, and our ability to sacrifice for others. We learn that we are capable of so much more, capable of changing the world, capable of growing our families and communities. We learn to aspire. This is the &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gear"&gt;Kairos &lt;/a&gt;experience. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-4275806819774739711?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=home' title='Self-Efficacy And Thinking Errors'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/4275806819774739711/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=4275806819774739711' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/4275806819774739711'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/4275806819774739711'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2009/02/self-efficacy-and-thinking-errors.html' title='Self-Efficacy And Thinking Errors'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SYoeK37TwDI/AAAAAAAAAW4/TL7N8YSn_nY/s72-c/Dan+LeMaire.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-1920966649732185475</id><published>2009-01-14T09:48:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-14T09:56:13.816-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aspiro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='students'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Family workshops'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Southern Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adults'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wilderness therapy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Central Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adult program'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Adventure wilderenss program'/><title type='text'>Inviting Openness</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gallery"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SW4mp5wZtVI/AAAAAAAAAWI/FYthVoYTd-U/s320/Mike+Escalante+Aspiro+0109.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5291209113527235922" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By: Mike Escalante, Program Director&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;I started working for a wilderness therapy program in 2003. When I began, I think only the “wilderness” part of wilderness therapy had caught my attention. I instantly fell in love with the job as it entailed hanging out with a bunch of guys in a beautiful Arizona mountain landscape. As time went on, I worked for other programs and became more and more aware of the “therapy” side. I became introduced to a variety of therapeutic theories and intervention modalities focused on facilitating change. Some of these theories interested me and others felt hokey or even oppressive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the time I worked for my third program, I honestly felt flooded in a sea of information and theories about “change” that oftentimes seemed to miss the mark. One theory seemed to contradict another while others seemed to be a lexical reorganization of yet other theories. After years of working with youth and implementing a whole gamut of interventions, I discovered a fundamental and necessary component of “change”. Stated simply, I learned that seeds of growth can only take root in a person when he is open to the idea of growth. I realized that each student I work with had to come to a place in their heart and mind where they were at peace with a successful outcome. When students found this open place, seeds of change could be planted and cultivated.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;After making my long overdue discovery, a few things became apparent. When at war emotionally with others, we excuse ourselves from our negative behaviors. Therefore, accusing is almost always accompanied with excusing. In other words, if a student is focused on how she has been wronged by her parents and program staff than she will naturally accuse others of warped perception and excuse her actions in the interplay. Terry Warner eloquently explains this paradigm in his masterpiece The Bonds That Make us Free.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;These realizations fostered a significant change in the way I viewed my role. As a caregiver, mentor or guide, my greatest challenge and responsibility was to invite my students to an open place. Openness, I have found, is the only foundation that supports the weight of lasting change. Of course my realization was not accompanied by a universal equation for eliciting openness. Rather, my realization has helped me develop a new focus and realize that my invitation must come from a place of personal openness and peace.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Fortunately, I found &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Kairos by Aspiro&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, or &lt;a href="http://www.aspiroadventure.com/"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt; found me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Kairos &lt;/span&gt; is a young adult program&lt;/a&gt; that actively seeks to instill a sense of openness in its employees and students.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Furthermore, &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Kairos&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; explicitly invites openness with our students’ families during our family workshop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It has been awesome to see parents and children drop their accusing and excusing emotions and hence regain the ability to see themselves and others clearly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, as the program director for &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=safety"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;Kairos&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, I get to work closely with guides and clinicians in training and program development. I am constantly astounded at the simple ways our field guides and clinical staff touch the lives of the students we work with.Throughout the years I have studied many therapeutic theories that have appropriate application to our work, yet none of them have the power to foster change if the person most in need of change is at war with the idea. My invitation to all of my employees, as well as to anyone who works in our important industry, is to free ourselves as much as we can from accusing and excusing emotions so that we can invite the same in our students.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-1920966649732185475?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=home' title='Inviting Openness'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/1920966649732185475/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=1920966649732185475' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/1920966649732185475'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/1920966649732185475'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2009/01/inviting-openness.html' title='Inviting Openness'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SW4mp5wZtVI/AAAAAAAAAWI/FYthVoYTd-U/s72-c/Mike+Escalante+Aspiro+0109.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-2035312539879822618</id><published>2009-01-04T19:01:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-05T09:52:42.409-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='substance abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Lake Powell'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aspiro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rock climbing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Vantage Point'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='summer programs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Southern Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='academic underachievement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Central Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adults'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rappelling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adult program'/><title type='text'>Why We Still Work for Kairos...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=safety"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SWJIhVRLAxI/AAAAAAAAAVw/5QBuS4C4eyk/s320/Jodi+Escalante+0109.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287868649968435986" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;By: &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=clinical"&gt;Jodi Escalante&lt;/a&gt;, Assistant Program Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I never would have guessed that my husband, Michael and I would still be working at for the &lt;a href="http://www.aspiroadventure.com/academics.htm"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt; Group of programs (&lt;a href="http://www.aspiroadventure.com/basecamp.htm"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.vantagept.org/?q=program"&gt;Vantage Point&lt;/a&gt;).  When we first heard about &lt;a href="http://www.aspiroadventure.com/clinicalservices.htm"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt;/&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;/&lt;a href="http://www.vantagept.org/?q=model"&gt;Vantage Point&lt;/a&gt;, we had only been married about 6 months.  We were both attending college and thought this would be a fun summer job, where we would get to work together.  We had both worked in traditional wilderness programs before, but never together.  And just to sound cliché, we started an adventure that we’ve yet to end.  That first summer was truly amazing: canoeing on beautiful Lake Powell, exploring the majestic slot canyons of Central and Southern Utah, exploring caves and rappelling, rock climbing all across the state, and hiking through the most beautiful areas that I never knew existed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the fall, we returned to school to finish our undergraduate studies, but every weekend we traveled out to our groups and trained the newer guides.  When Michael and I graduated (April 2007), we returned to &lt;a href="http://www.aspiroadventure.com/Expeditions.htm"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt;/&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gear"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;/&lt;a href="http://www.vantagept.org/?q=building"&gt;Vantage Point&lt;/a&gt; full time because we were hooked.  As noted earlier, we had both worked for primitive model wilderness programs.  However, after working at the Aspiro group of programs, neither of us could imagine working at a wilderness program without the ADVENTURE.  We pushed our students harder, faster, and farther than either of us had previously experienced.  Since that first summer at&lt;a href="http://www.aspiroadventure.com/gallery.htm"&gt; Aspiro&lt;/a&gt; I have embarked on so many beautiful and amazing adventures and have built some unforgettable relationships with students.  I guess that’s my other favorite thing about Aspiro: we emphasize stronger relationships than the norm.  Given the high impact adventures, we have an amazing opportunity to help someone through a physically or emotionally challenging experience, to push them beyond their comfort zone to higher ground.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And when the dust settles and the high fives and hugs are done, and they’ve overcome their seemingly impassible struggles, we learn from the metaphors; teacher and student alike.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-2035312539879822618?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program' title='Why We Still Work for Kairos...'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/2035312539879822618/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=2035312539879822618' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/2035312539879822618'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/2035312539879822618'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2009/01/why-we-still-work-for-kairos.html' title='Why We Still Work for Kairos...'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SWJIhVRLAxI/AAAAAAAAAVw/5QBuS4C4eyk/s72-c/Jodi+Escalante+0109.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-6764388999212446980</id><published>2008-12-29T13:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-29T13:15:26.823-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teens'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='snowboarding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='therapist'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='whitewater river trips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='substance abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='therapy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='skiing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aspiro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='struggling teens'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adults'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='academic underachievement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adult program'/><title type='text'>Young Adults Get New Name, Logo</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; 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We are pleased to introduce you to our new name, discovered by one of our incredibly bright young adult students.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; is an ancient Greek word with an appropriate meaning: “the right or opportune moment.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:100%;"  &gt;The ancient Greeks had two words for time, &lt;u&gt;chronos&lt;/u&gt; and &lt;u&gt;kairos&lt;/u&gt;. While the former refers to chronological or sequential time, the latter signifies a time in between, a moment of undetermined period of time in which something special happens. What the “something special” is depends on who is using the word. The word &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gallery"&gt;&lt;u&gt;Kairos&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, is pronounced like the city Cairo, then adding an “s.” It is a unique name, one that we have considered for some time. Like &lt;a href="http://www.aspiroadventure.com/Admissions.htm"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt;, it may be a bit difficult to remember at first, but it is one that should never be confused with anyone else!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:100%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:100%;"  &gt;We hope you like the name itself, as well as the unique logo. We have launched the &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=admissions"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; website where you can get lots of great &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=pricing"&gt;information&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gallery"&gt;awesome photos&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=application"&gt; online application&lt;/a&gt; and so forth. Please check it out when you have the time at: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;b  style="font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;www.kairosadventure.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:&amp;quot;;font-size:12;"  &gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-6764388999212446980?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program' title='Young Adults Get New Name, Logo'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/6764388999212446980/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=6764388999212446980' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/6764388999212446980'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/6764388999212446980'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2008/12/young-adults-get-new-name-logo.html' title='Young Adults Get New Name, Logo'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SVk6woURAFI/AAAAAAAAAVY/EQlK73a_72I/s72-c/Kairos+Logo+1208.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-313233437578947386</id><published>2008-12-24T16:11:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-04T10:24:55.637-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='students'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sports'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='rock climbing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='educational consultants'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Central Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='therapy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Bouldering'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Brad Carpenter'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adult program'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ropes Course'/><title type='text'>Philosophy of Bouldering   -   The Project    -  Dan LeMaire</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SVLQs2syCwI/AAAAAAAAAUw/KwPYXtv4eTc/s320/Dan+LeMaire.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5283514781875178242" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;One of the experiences that &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt;Kairos &lt;/a&gt;provides year-round for its participants is  the sport of bouldering.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Bouldering is a form of rock climbing where the  athlete climbs only as high as it is safe to fall, but does not use a rope.   Instead, guides and peers use gymnastic ‘spotting’ techniques and  specially-designed ‘crash pads’ to keep the athletes safe.  Boulderers typically  climb on boulders instead of cliffs, eliminating the risk of rock fall from  above, and adding the reward of being able to stand on top of the ‘conquered’  climb and rest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Routes that boulderers climb are called ‘problems’ and usually  consist of only a few (usually 6-12) moves that are much more challenging than  typical rock climbing, and often much more gymnastic.  Bouldering can be at once  frustrating and engaging, overwhelming and peaceful, painful and comforting,  social and individual.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;The glory of bouldering is that the greatest  experiences are intimately related to the worst experiences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;The highs depend  on the lows.  In bouldering, a successful climb is simply not rewarding unless  it is a successful climb that was fought for.  The more difficult a problem is  for a boulderer, the more she must fight for the climb, and the more she fights  for the climb, the greater the thrill when she stands on top of the boulder,  basking in the overwhelming sensations of victory.  Of course to achieve this  reward, she must outlast a wilderness of despair, as she second-guesses and  doubts her strength at every fall, fall after fall.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;The blessing and the curse  of such a sport, is that no problem is impossible, but nearly every problem is  improbable.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;  At &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=field_team"&gt;Kairos,&lt;/a&gt; we seek to engage every staff and  student in the ‘Project Experience’.  Boulderers of all levels, when they arrive  at a new area, use guidebooks, ratings, and word of mouth to find the problems  that seem most appropriate for their skill level.  Much of their time is spent  familiarizing themselves with the style of climbing in the area, and the  relative scale of difficulty ratings.  In every case, however, what the climber  is really seeking is “The Project”.  The Project is the one climb that he cannot  climb the first day, the first week, or even the first month.  When he feels the  first holds, he believes it is impossible.  Yet there is a beauty to this  problem- it calls out to him and invites him in.  At first he tries it and it  confirms to him that he will need to return another time, 3 years maybe, 5 years  maybe, to climb it.  It confirms to him that he is simply not strong enough,  determined enough, or resilient enough to attempt it yet.  Maybe  later.&lt;o:p&gt;  &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;As he climbs other problems around it, he  successfully completes the easier problems in 1, 2 or even 5 tries.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;It feels  good, and he is proud of himself, but still the Project calls to him. Eventually  he cannot ignore it and he gives it his first real attempt.  Rejection!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Further confirmation that this climb is not possible for him, he is not good  enough, not ready.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;He is conflicted inside, he does not want to experience  rejection again, but he wants to climb the project.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt; He throws himself at the  project again, despite his conflicting feelings.  A cycle of enthusiastic  attempts and disheartening rejections follows until finally, the climber tries  the first move, and it feels different… he understands it differently.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt; “If I  only squeeze this muscle this way, balance on my toe this way, and throw my body  skyward exactly this way… perhaps it is possible,” he thinks to himself.  And  then success comes.  He can do the first move.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Thrilled over such an accomplishment, the  climber invites her friends to come watch, throws herself at the project and the  project dismisses her once again.  She is finally beginning to understand the  curse of a sport that seemed so fun and so relaxing just an hour ago.  No matter  how much effort she puts into the first move of a problem, and even when she  finally figures it out and understands it, she must still climb that first move  and put all the same energy into it every time she gets on the problem, if she  ever wants a chance to climb the second move.   It does not become suddenly easy  because you succeeded once.  Likewise, it does not become suddenly harder  because you have failed once.  The rock is constant, we are the ones who  change.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;      &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;To overcome the problem, we must not change the problem without- that  is never enough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;We must change the problem within.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;  The cycles of overwhelming success and  victory, and crushing defeat are very normal in the sport of bouldering.  As  professional boulderers exist in all sizes and shapes, one can guess that  external strength, height, weight, age, or natural abilities do not determine a  successful climber, or how much one falls in love with the sport.  It seems  obvious with even a little experience, that success is determined by strength of  heart, not strength of arm.  It is what is inside that counts.  It is the  climber’s ability to accept any failure as temporary, to accept failure as  little more than a stepping stone to her goals that determines whether or not  she will succeed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt; As guides at &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gear"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;, we strive to make this  process happen at least once for every student, staff, and visitor in the  field.   It is more than a hope, it is an expectation.   One can watch  professional climbers work projects for years before success.  This resolve is a  quality that we admire at &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gallery"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;.  We hope to build a community and an  environment that supports opens doors- a place where we can test our resolve and  even grow it.  As staff and students at &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=admissions"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;, we share a  unique season of therapy.  It is a season of challenge, frustration,  overwhelming accomplishment, and deep respect for each other’s struggles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;It is  a therapy we share.  Staff refuse to be ‘teachers’ who have all the answers that  the students must absorb.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Staff instead become teachers who inspire passion,  craft experiences, and share burdens.  We grow to love and hate bouldering as it  begins to represent both our victories, and our unfinished projects.  We return  with excitement and trepidation.  We learn to guide each other through the  experience, provide the community of support, and be the invisible force that  helps each other to succeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;And of course, we all have the opportunity to see  ourselves overcome, to engage in a contest that is both against ourselves and  greater than ourselves, and to experience the ultimate rush, the goal of all  boulderers, The Project.&lt;/p&gt;Dan LeMaire&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-313233437578947386?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program' title='Philosophy of Bouldering   -   The Project    -  Dan LeMaire'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/313233437578947386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=313233437578947386' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/313233437578947386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/313233437578947386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2008/12/philosophy-of-bouldering-project-dan.html' title='Philosophy of Bouldering   -   The Project    -  Dan LeMaire'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SVLQs2syCwI/AAAAAAAAAUw/KwPYXtv4eTc/s72-c/Dan+LeMaire.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-4003824507188871084</id><published>2008-12-21T14:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-21T14:48:27.459-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Justin Robinson'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parents'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Family workshops'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adults'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rappelling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Experiential Therapy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ropes Course'/><title type='text'>Experiential Therapy - Director of Clinical Services - Justin Robinson, LCSW</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SU7F0aS0kHI/AAAAAAAAAUA/WKuqiw1I_DY/s320/Justin+Robinson.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282376917154304114" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;Of all the memorable things we do at &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt;, one of my favorites is taking families  rappelling.  While I have had great experiences on a ropes course and doing  initiative games, there is something about the realism of doing a rappel. It  feels less contrived and more authentic. At our last family workshop, the rappel  that we took the families on was not set up for therapy but by climbers for the  sport of rappelling. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;With the  experience of the rappel, am always surprised by the participation we are able  to elicit.  Looking back on all of our &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt;workshops&lt;/a&gt; we seem to have about 95% of  participants do the actual rappel and 100% of participants who are involved in  the experience by providing the belay for those rappelling as well as in the  processing of the experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;Regardless of age, weight, or ability of the  participants we are able to provide an interactive and positive experience. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;We just  finished our December family relationship workshop and I am feeling positive  about the experiences we had as a group. I want to express appreciation to all  the staff for their hard work and effort in putting on the event but I  especially want to acknowledge the students and parents for being open to  looking at things in a new way, having the courage to face the variety of  challenges and obstacles they are facing, and for making course corrections and  being willing to learn from their mistakes. I felt good about the weekend and  appreciate the positive feedback that many of the families provided. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;By far my  favorite part of the weekend was the rappel. For years, as I have taken students  rappelling it has been something I enjoy but watching the students do the rappel  with their parents is way cooler, especially when it is completely out of  character for them.  Often during the phone calls in the weeks preceding the  event, parents begin to express their anxieties. While we always assure them  that they do not have to participate in the rappel most of them do despite their  fears and hesitations. I am always wowed by those who face this and also am  aware that for some people it is healthier both physically and emotionally to  participate by supporting others on belay. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;So what  makes us so successful in eliciting this participation?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt; Our staff who  facilitate the rappel do a great job to not only ensure we are doing it as  safely as possible, managing any hazard that can be managed in nature, to  educate the participates about the risks, but also in &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=gallery"&gt;teaching the participates  how to engage in the activity safely&lt;/a&gt;. It is important that those doing the  rappel not only be safe but feel safe. Taking healthy risks is encouraged; we  know that growth only occurs when we challenge ourselves. We recognize that many  of the participants have some anxiety about the activity yet as we, staff and  participants,  create an environment where people are supportive and  nonjudgmental of those who have fears or resistance it opens up many to the  challenge of the rappel. The group this month did a great job ensuring that  everyone felt emotionally safe. While much of the rappel is done individually as  they face their fears and lower themselves down the rock, others also play a  role in providing backup safety and support. One of the things that made this  month’s rappel successful was that provided a great example that while  individual efforts are necessary for success, another major factor in individual  success was the sense of community as no one felt they were doing it  alone. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;The  adventure activity concluded with a processing circle that provided an  opportunity for everyone to share what they learned through participation and  observation. The participants were invited to discuss what they learned or an  attribute they were able to apply which if now applied to the real life  challenges they were facing could be a significant part of the solution. At our  workshops staff repeatedly observe that families more instinctively apply a  supportive, productive problem-solving approach to adventure challenges and we  recognize that if the family would approach other challenges in the same manner  as they are facing the rappelling challenge, it would make a dramatic difference  in the result they are getting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;With staff front-loading a variety of metaphors  and principles that can be applied throughout the rappel and due in large part  to the power of the experience for many, we were able to get past the  superficial ‘let-me-make-a quick-answer-so-we-can-move-things-along’ responses.  Instead there was some incredible sharing of insight that incorporated and  applied a variety of principles we had been discussing at the workshop to both  the rappel and to real life challenges.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;The rappel  experience really helped give us momentum through the rest of the very  successful workshop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: arial;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:100%;" &gt;It was an honor and privilege to be part of this experience  with everyone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=admissions"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: arial;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;strong&gt;Director of Clinical Services - Justin Robinson, LCSW&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-4003824507188871084?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/' title='Experiential Therapy - Director of Clinical Services - Justin Robinson, LCSW'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/4003824507188871084/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=4003824507188871084' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/4003824507188871084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/4003824507188871084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2008/12/experiential-therapy-director-of.html' title='Experiential Therapy - Director of Clinical Services - Justin Robinson, LCSW'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SU7F0aS0kHI/AAAAAAAAAUA/WKuqiw1I_DY/s72-c/Justin+Robinson.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-3242300285840472394</id><published>2008-12-15T17:47:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-15T18:07:13.460-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teens'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='students'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='therapist'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parents'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='drugs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Brad Carpenter'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aspiro'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='struggling teens'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='educational consultants'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adults'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Adventure wilderenss program'/><title type='text'>Choosing Aspiro  By  Brad Carpenter, Psy.D</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SUcJaO5kchI/AAAAAAAAASY/z46doeLQefw/s320/Brad+Carpenter+Ropes.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280199434396004882" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:'Times New Roman','serif';font-size:12;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:'Times New Roman','serif';font-size:12;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Perhaps you as a  parent or an educational consultant are considering the same thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;  I was about  a&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; year and a half ago.  Mine is a different story, however, which began about 14  years ago at a militar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;y base in Atlanta, Georgia.  This was my introduction to  therapy and needed transition from an academic knowledge of psychology to  reality.  My first client, a 40 year old African American woman suffering from  depression, left the session somewhat exasperated and remarked that she couldn’t  believe that “Donnie Osmond” was her new therapist.  This was precisely when I  began wearing suspenders and a tie to work every day in an effort to ach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;ieve age  and credibility.  My second client was a couple who came for marital therapy and  promptly asked if I was married or had any children. Quick witted, I replied  something to the effect that I didn’t need to be shot to know that it would  hurt! This, my valiant attempt to explain that it was not necessary to have  first hand knowledge of their situation to be a good therapist, a message  understandably obscured by the comparison of marr&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;iage to a mortal injury.   Needless to say, I learned to button up more than my oxford after this and  listen.  My third client was a bright 15 year old girl who was seen because of  oppositional behaviors and underachievement.  Having problems getting her to  speak I decided to join her in silence, a technique I learned from Robin  Williams in &lt;i&gt;Good Will Hunting&lt;/i&gt;, not my graduate psychotherapy course.   Instead of paving the way for the dramatic break through, she yelled at me and  told her parents I wouldn’t even talk in therapy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;They were naturally  concern&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;ed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Almost a decade  and a half later, armed with wisdom, experience and a receding hair line I was  lucky enough to have a choice as to the direction of my career.  Over the years  I had specialized as a diagnostician, performing  psychological neuropsychological assessment with a secondary role as a  therapist.  I was &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;moonlighting as an adjunct professor of psychology for a local  college when I was asked to teach an introductory therapy course to graduate  counselors.  For a while I was a back to where I started, rediscovering my roots  as a therapist, joking with my students about my pop star past and preparing  them for what’s to come.  What I have learned over the years is that therapy is  an art and while there are some who would disagree with this statement as is,  they may not disagree with the assertion that adolescent therapy is an art.  I  could say this with some certainty after working in the therapeutic boarding  industry for almost three years while contracting with an adolescent wilderness  therapy program.  I was particularly intrigued by the prospect of the adolescent  wilderness experience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; and heard the buzz that some colleagues had taken this  concept a step further, creating a high adventure therapy program called  Aspiro.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Disillusioned by the status quo and the primitive wilderness model, I  was excited to hear that the industry was evolving.  Fortunately, I had many  choices, but realized after a brief visit that I had found my dream job and  quickly made the decision to move across country to join the group.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt; has taken  the successful elements of traditional wilderness therapy and raised the bar  significantly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;When I refer to a “primitive” wilderness therapy model, I don’t  mean to discount the effectiveness or inherent sophistication of a model which  has helped countless numbers of adolescents in beginning to turn their lives  around.  I simply refer to an outdated traditional model in which adolescents  learn basic skills (breaking a fire) while backpacking around a restricted area,  sometimes far away from civilization.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt;’s&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; adventure therapy model combines  the benefits of the traditional wilderness experience with overwhelming mastery  experiences - climbing 200 feet off the ground, free rappelling a 150 foot arch,  paddling a class 4 rapid, summiting a 13,000 foot peak, building ice caves,  skiing, snowboarding and mountain biking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; And best of all, I’m right there with  them. My first therapy  experience at Aspiro was paddling a 25 mile stretch with a student who had  recently become involved in drugs, an intelligent young man who I had seen a  hundred times before in a different setting.  It was here though, floating down  the Green River that I knew I had shed my suspenders for good, in this place  without walls, florescent lighting or plaques.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; I was no longer just an  authoritarian but a participant, padd&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;le in hand.  It was in this place and many  others since that I noticed the resistance I had encountered in a traditional  setting was no longer there or significantly diminished.  Suddenly the clients  were negotiating their way through tricky situations, ones I didn’t read about  in an intake report but was observing in the moment. They were there, right  before my eyes, pushing themselves, interacting with other students and all the  time humbled by nature.  Not only were we collaborating in therapy but together  we had accomplished something significant by days end.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The students were  building confidence and learning real skills through mastery experiences.  They  were more alert and receptive from the adventure and the novelty of the  environment, a benefit also shared by myself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Every week I knew that when I saw  m&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;y student, he/she would have a story to tell me, a story of struggle and  accomplishment.  This was the same story I heard a year later from the student I  shared a paddle with my first day.  He had continued his adventure in Costa  Rica, drug free, now a high school graduate and using the same skills he had  learned a year earlier at Aspiro. So choose wisely  as I did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: justify;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Every student and family situation is unique and every therapist has  a different calling.  I found mine here in Utah. In the past year, Aspiro bought  out its parent company and i&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;s now independently owned by its therapists and the  original founders who have a personal stake in its success.  We have grown,  refined our model and adapted to the needs of our students, families and  consultants.  This is by far the coolest place I have ever worked and I  appreciate all the support I have received from our staff, my students and the  many parents and consultants I have worked with since joining &lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=base_camp"&gt;Aspiro&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: georgia;" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=clinical_team"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dr. Brad Carpenter - Psy.D&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-3242300285840472394?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/' title='Choosing Aspiro  By  Brad Carpenter, Psy.D'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/3242300285840472394/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=3242300285840472394' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/3242300285840472394'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/3242300285840472394'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2008/12/choosing-aspiro-by-brad-carpenter-psyd.html' title='Choosing Aspiro  By  Brad Carpenter, Psy.D'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/SUcJaO5kchI/AAAAAAAAASY/z46doeLQefw/s72-c/Brad+Carpenter+Ropes.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4294886618846703188.post-6828386526799038950</id><published>2008-11-29T17:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-29T17:33:21.919-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='snowboarding'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='whitewater river trips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Utah'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='substance abuse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='low self esteem'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='young adults'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Kairos'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='academic underachievement'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='therapy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='skiing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Adventure wilderenss program'/><title type='text'>Kairos Adventure Wilderness Program - Is It Right For You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 60px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STHqNMrLsEI/AAAAAAAAAQ0/dMxFgErqCT0/s320/Kairos+1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5274254151089107010" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kairos operates year-round&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt;.  &lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Appropriate candidates are young adults, ages 18 to 30 years of age, with a history of soft to moderate emotional and behavioral challenges, low self-esteem, academic underachievement, substance abuse and family conflict.  &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=students"&gt;Kairos&lt;/a&gt; is a 7 to 12 week program with an average length of stay of 54 days. Adventure therapy is designed to foster the beginnings of significant, positive change in a short period of time. &lt;p&gt;Kairos students participate in an expedition-style adventure where nature has a way of healing. With direction from a dedicated and caring staff, the students are led along a path where hope and healing begin.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; While continued therapy remains the primary focus of Kairos, students are also taught many life lessons, character development, and  adventure-based activities designed to enhance their quality of life for years to come. Activities at Kairos may include whitewater river trips in rafts or canoes, skiing, snowboarding, top-rope rock climbing, caving, mountain-biking, horseback riding, primitive living skills, hiking/backpacking, arts and crafts, etc. Each activity is designed to help students climb to a higher level of self-efficacy, and help them draw the metaphors to real life. The goal is to instill tools for success individually and with family and friends.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When you have questions regarding the appropriateness of our program, please give us a call at &lt;strong&gt;1-888-266-5136&lt;/strong&gt;.  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;We welcome the opportunity to speak with you and to discuss your specific situation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: lucida grande; font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Kairos Young Adult Adventure Wilderness Program&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4294886618846703188-6828386526799038950?l=kairosadventure.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.kairosadventure.com/?q=program' title='Kairos Adventure Wilderness Program - Is It Right For You?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/feeds/6828386526799038950/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4294886618846703188&amp;postID=6828386526799038950' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/6828386526799038950'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4294886618846703188/posts/default/6828386526799038950'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kairosadventure.blogspot.com/2008/11/kairos-adventure-wilderness-program-is.html' title='Kairos Adventure Wilderness Program - Is It Right For You?'/><author><name>Randy Oakley, Executive Officer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13637970389847661754</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STA7iYLNNnI/AAAAAAAAAQA/DjNuwBWiZ5M/S220/Randy+Oakley.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_XYIBCb0GicU/STHqNMrLsEI/AAAAAAAAAQ0/dMxFgErqCT0/s72-c/Kairos+1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
